some stuff to change in the site to be perfect more that it is =)

please can we change the shape of the messeges and make it easier cause it's really upsetting , can we change it and make it like the facebook to make the older message seen when i'm writting my message and also change the eye which make it seen , change it when i just open the message it become seen , also you can alow the user to block people who i don't want so i won't see this stuff and he doesn't see mine too and he can't send me a message or comment on my stuff , also can you allow us to changd my profile picture by myself , and please try to find a sponser for this site in order to help us to work more and improve the site more and more
thanks